Love Whispers, Kalai Selvi Arivalagan [great novels txt] 📗

you may have heard the phase "bedroom eyes" used to describe the look someone gives when they are attracted to another person.

How To Flirt By Preening

There are many, many ways one groom themselves in public in a flattering yet flirty way, depending on your gender. Ladies can try some hair stroking, posture enhancing, neck exposing, hip tilting (if standing), clothes straightening or lip licking - all with the intention of calling attention to her attractiveness. Men can also straighten their clothing, lick their lips or fix their hair, but they should also include things like hooking their fingers into their pants (if standing), suck in their stomach, or take deep breaths to increase the size of their chest. For both men and women, try to use preening body language that shows off your best features while enhancing what makes you, you.

How To Flirt With A Smile

There are few things better than receiving a genuine, radiant smile from a stranger, yet many people don't respond to them as a flirt tactic. Therefore, use your smile in conjunction with the other body language ideas listed in this article to ensure whomever you've got your eye on realizes a flirt is your intention.

How To Flirt By Pointing

No, not by using your finger silly. Instead, try to 'point' at the person you want to flirt with by moving your body towards them. Take your feet and make sure they are facing your flirt target, and use your shoulders to lean into them - even if you aren't speaking with them. Other ideas include facing your shoulders towards them or 'closing off' a space just for the two of you (such as crossing your legs towards each other).

How To Flirt Using Touch

Look for opportunities where you can touch the person you want to flirt with, either 'accidentally' or otherwise. Shaking hands is an excellent flirt tactic, because not only does it place your hands together (which conveys a "higher level of intimacy" according to Alan and Barbara Pease), but it is easy way to combine flirting with an introduction. You could also try carefully and casually placing your hands on the person's arms to very gently 'move' them so you can pass by on your way to the bathroom, or lightly tap their arm while sharing a laugh. And if you aren't quite comfortable touching the person you want to flirt with quite yet, you can try mimicking their movements for a short period of time

 

A silent bond slowly grew between them. A silent exchange of glances told how much they loved each other. Every day after Ramya climbed down the bus at the terminus, Vikram smiled mischievously at him and asked how things are going on and when will they break their silence?

 

“Mind your own business” Vel grimaced.

 

“Yes. Not only me, all people watched you. Day by day you glow in love.” Vikram chuckled.

 

“Tell your love soon. Otherwise someone may come and snatch her away.” Vikram stressed.

 

Vel believed that type of energy exchange occurs between individuals. The concept has not yet received the acceptance from the scientists of the world due to the absence of a possible mechanism to describe this energy and show how it facilitates the exchange of energy. He knew that the heart generates the strongest electromagnetic field for he could feel the strong vibration of positive energy whenever he is surrounded by well wishers and loved ones. He experienced higher energy levels whenever Ramya stepped into his thoughts. The frequency of wavelength between them resembled and a sound sense of satisfaction leapt him without his will.

 

Is there a connection between the same frequency level and the palpitation of the heart? Why should my heart beats go fast as if they want to jump out of my ribs and feel her love beats? Vel could not tell how Ramya also felt. Though he wanted to know how she felt, he did not have the courage to take the first step and get it acknowledged.

 

The heart has been considered the source of emotion, wisdom and courage for years. It is interesting to know the physiological mechanisms by which the heart communicates with the brain and influences information processing, perceptions, emotions and health. It is not yet easy to answer questions such as “Why do people experience the feeling or sense of love and positive emotional state at heart and what are the physiological processes of these emotions? How do stress and different emotional states affect the nervous system, hormonal and immune systems, the heart and the brain? All these years, we may have experienced with different psychological and physiological measures. Yet heart rate variability or heart rhythms stood out as the most dynamic and reflective of inner emotional states and stress.

 

It is clearly understood that negative emotions lead to increased disorder in the rhythm of the heart, and in the nervous system which adversely affected the rest of the body. Positive emotions created increased harmony and coherence in the heart rhythms and improved balance in the nervous system. If there is disharmony in the nervous system it leads to inefficiency and increased stress on the heart and other organs. Harmonious rhythms are more efficient and less stressful to the systems in the body. When specific techniques are applied that can increase the consistency in the occurrence of rhythmic patterns of heart rate. A shift in perception increases ability to reduce stress and deal more effectively with difficult situations. A heart acts as though it had a mind of its own and it profoundly influenced the way we look at the world and respond to the world. The heart affects both intelligence and awareness. (Source: The Institute of Heart Math (IHM) Research Center)

 

Ramya did notice Vel but she didn’t want to encourage and get into conflicts. Having been a part of a film world that reeled with infatuation and absence of any emotional bonds, she didn’t want to take the risk of getting into unnecessary problems. Ramya knew that her father may not like it or encourage her love. After seeing her going for a regular job, he felt calm at heart. He never pestered her with bothering questions and allowed her to do what she liked. Ramya did not want to spoil this positive environment at home and she wanted to see her parents happy and satisfied. She just wanted some more to take a decision and she also wanted her father to accept whatever decision she took regarding her married life.

 

Vikram dropped Vel on his way home. Vel got down at the main road and started walking toward his home. Though it was past midnight, he didn’t feel anything scary as he often traveled to distant places at night. He had heard so many stories about ghosts from his colleagues who were driving night buses. He crossed the house that stood at the corner of the street. The doors and windows were locked. The main gate of the house lacked a lock and that allowed people easy entrance into the front yard. Some guys turned that space into a drinking bar and they made it as a regular meeting place to share their drinks. Rarely some men come along with girls and they would go to the back yard and spend their time there. The empty vacant land laden with bushes sprawled near the house and so there was no interference from any nosy neighbor also.   The abandoned house turned to be a favorite place for ghosts and those drunken men at night.

 

But, whenever he walked past that particular house on the main road, uneasiness gripped him. With their gates locked, doors and windows shut, the house gave an eerie look. Though the locked space gave way for antisocial elements to rejoice and during the hours after midnight agitated souls from the nearby cemetery roamed around. Heavily drunk men sometimes didn’t leave the space and they slept through the night. They often had unaccounted recollection of wild memories of being dragged and kicked from the place where they slept. No one could give an elaborate account of what happened but had vague memories of apparitions that roamed the place.

 

Lifting emotions

 

“Think of the devil” Solomon chuckled at Teena.

 

Teena didn’t answer. There was no one in the lift except both of them.

 

“Why so late?” Solomon questioned.

 

“Is there any restrictions that I must reply to your questions?’

 

“No need. I think you have mistaken me. I asked that in a friendly way only.”

 

“It is none of your business.”

 

Suddenly the current went off. The lift stopped in the middle of its descend. She could not tell where it got stuck. The mirror on the doors reflected both of them. Teena desperately dialed her office number. They promised her that something will be done immediately and there is no need to panic.

Solomon did not react. He did not want to talk anything and make her panic. He pressed the alarm bell.

 

Solomon took a small torch from his shirt packet and lit the space. The light brightened the space and he could see Teena’s face white with fear.

 

An unknown fear gripped her. Her palms wet with fear gripped at the handle at the side. She slipped and fell unconscious. Solomon initially didn’t know how to handle this sudden turn of events. He looked at Teena who lied unconscious on the lift floor. He always carried a bottle of water in his backpack. He splashed water on her face. This stirred her and she opened her eyes.

 

Teena opened her mouth to scream as she saw Solomon’s face so near her.

 

Luckily, the current renewed, and the lift started to move down. Teena tried to get up and stand but she could not do so. Still her eye sight blurred and she felt dizzy.

 

The lift reached the ground floor and the door opened. No one was at the door. Feeling relieved Solomon asked her to wipe her face with the shawl.

 

“If you don’t mind I can drop you at your place” Teena spontaneously responded to his request. Nothing registered in her mind for she may need some more time to come out of that shock. Even after he dropped her at the hostel, she could not come out of the shock. Solomon told the warden what happened at the lift and told her to take care of her.

 

Teena quickly gulped her dinner and went to bed. She could only remember the comforting grip of Solomon. Teena could not imagine anything further. That was the first mishap that happened to her at the lift and she wished she will not take the lift again.

 

Sex is in the Air

There is a good amount of evidence suggesting that men release their sexual intentions through airborne pheromones that emerge through their sweat glands, saying, “Yeehaw.” This may happen even though his little man might seem to be saying, “Why don’t you come back tomorrow.” This is what is considered to be a woman’s intuition for knowing when Mr. Sparky is ready to play. As it turns out, you really should rely on your instincts when it comes to these matters, as the brain has been designed to pick up on a man’s most subtle cues.

 

The “Oh” Face

You can tell a lot about a guy by studying the expression on