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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

LEIL LOWNDES, internationally recognized communications expert, has presented programs in practically every major U.S. city. She has coached Fortune 500 executives on interpersonal communications and has conducted communications seminars for the U.S. Peace Corps, foreign governments, and major corporations. She is the author of three books, including the topsellinHgow to Talk to Anybody About Anything .

Prior to her work in communications, Ms. Lowndes was Founder and Director of The Project, a New York City-based not-for-profit organization that conducted relationship research and counseling. She is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors, and Therapists.

Based in New York City, the author has lectured at dozens of universities and colleges and has appeared on hundreds of television and radio programs.