How To Make Her Fall For You On The First Date, Jum RaOof [best biographies to read TXT] 📗

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Idiot Proof –
How to make her fall for you on the first Date?
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Contents
1. Prepare Yourself ………………………………..…….......….. 3
2. How to make her fall for you on the First Date? ................. 6
1. Be Sincere in your Approach ...……….………….….. 6
2. Romance Her ………………………………………...…….. 8
3. Seduce Her …………………………………………..…………… 10
4. Be A Friend ………………………………………….…..…..…… 12
5. Instant Connection …………………………………..…… 14
3. Authors Note ……………………………………………..…..…….. 15
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LOVE - AS I SEE IT
Love has no set pattern. It can happen to anyone, anywhere and
at any time. There is no magic formula for falling in or out of love.
When in love everything around you seems lively and cheerful. A
person in love imparts happiness and contentment to all
concerned in abundance.
Love can be very potent. It is contagious and infectious and
enfolds everyone in the vicinity in its cocoon. Love is both an
achievement and a sensation.
There are different ways in which one can define love, and at the
same time various ways to demonstrate it. Most of the time love
is confused with infatuation.
Love is long lasting or you can say everlasting. Infatuation is a
form of lust that passes away with time. It has very short shelf
life. True love is always unconditional with no strings attached to
it. Giving love to anyone does not guarantee it’s reciprocal. Fear of
losing your love, always makes one appreciate it more.
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To truly love someone, you must let them be free. Relationships
grow and progress, but love itself is solid and constant. It does
not change. Love does not brag, it does not boast, and never
commands. It is a precious gift bestowed only on very few.
Relish it and respect it. Remember there is no failure in love. It’s a
win-win situation. Love is never asked for, it’s never forced upon,
it’s like a free moving wind which takes its own course and
direction and cannot be limited into any boundaries.
Love is a charm, a magic and a hallucination. It is like a pied piper,
which makes everyone dance to its own tune. Love is a maze,
where one can be lost forever. Love is worship, pray it.
Prepare Yourself
Before going out on a date, and that also a special one, prepare
yourself for it, after all you are out to impress a girl and make her fall
for you. Remember, first impressions are lasting impressions.
Don’t make any blunder or mistakes that you would repent later.
Opportunities never knock at your door twice. Don’t ruin your
chances with the girl even before you get started. Plan your strategy,
chalk it out and implement it.
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Before asking a girl out, try to know as much as you can about her
preferences, and her likes and dislikes, and organize you outing
accordingly.
Know your budget and make a demarcation as to where and how
you are going to spend your money. Don’t be stingy, but at the same
time there is no need to be spendthrift also.
Remember, today is just your first date and if all goes well, there will
be many more to come. Look out for a place which will be well
within your limits.
First of all, decide, do you want a whole day outing, ending with the
dinner or is it just a movie and a dinner you are planning for or you
would like to have dinner and then go out for dance and drinks later.
It would all depend on how much money and time you would have
on you. One might think that just going out for dinner won’t give
sufficient time to woo a girl and make her fall for him, on the first
day itself, and would prefer spending the whole day out with her. In
that case, you would require lots of planning.
You might opt for a picnic or a day out excursion or group outing
followed by an exclusive private dinner for just two of you. In case,
you think you would manage just with a dinner, and dance following
it later, your strategy would be entirely different.
Be very sure, to book a restaurant in advance for your dinner. Your
eating joint depends on the amount of money you can, or rather you
want to spend on the girl. Don’t leave the table booking for the last
moment.
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You don’t want to be embarrassed by taking your girlfriend to a
restaurant without any prior booking and to find it all full. Keep in
mind that that the place you have booked, serves the cuisine of your
girlfriends taste.
Now that it is decided how and where you are taking your date, take
care of your personal physical appearance.
It’s very natural to be anxious and nervous before your first date.
Relax your reflexes and be properly rested. You must take a proper
sleep the night before. You don’t want to be haggard looking with
puffy eyes and yawning in between your conversation. That would
give an impression that you are not enjoying and are getting bored.
Don’t ruin your evening ever before it has started. Proper rest
sharpens the mind also and put one on alert.
Next give attention to your personal grooming. Don’t just open your
cupboard at the last moment and wear anything that you can put
your hands on. Take out your clothes beforehand. See to it they are
clean and well ironed and no buttons are missing.
Girls are very easily put off by ruffled, dirty, unkempt looks. Shave
properly, have bath, use cologne and see to it that your mouth does
not give out bad breadth the moment you open it.
Nothing scares off a girl faster than a foul smelling guy. If you sweat a
lot, spray some anti sweating deodorants under your arms, because
that is the first place where sweat leaves its mark most prominently.
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When was the last time, you have had a cut. Go to a salon, get a
proper cut done, see to it your nails are tidy, otherwise you can opt
for a manicure as well.
It all may sound as a big task, but will not take much of your time if
managed properly. Oh! Did you forget to polish your shoes? Since
you have already taken so much pains, don’t lose points just by
neglecting that single aspect.
Wear clean socks and shiny shoes. Stand in front of the mirror and
you would see a fine looking, well groomed, handsome man, any girl
would love to go out with.
Carry enough money with you. One never knows what might catch a
girl’s fancy at the last moment. After all it is your first date and you
would not want to say ‘No’ to her for anything.
As it is you want her to fall for you head over heels on the first day
itself, so you can’t afford to leave anything on chance. It seems by
being fully prepared, you have won the half battle already, so, go,
your lady love is out there waiting you to woo her, and make her
yours.
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Unravel the mystery of the mind and body and you would find how
easy it is to win over the love and affection of any girl.
Certain guidelines have been mentioned in this book to help you out
in your attack, rest you go by your own discretion and judgment.
Follow your instincts and nothing can go wrong.
Girls are emotional fools. Little manipulation, some seduction and a
man’s false promises and hopes is all, that is needed to make them
swoon on their feet. Women of today is dying for romance, they all
want their prince charming carrying them away on his white horse.
So, look out for your Cinderella from the swarms of girls scattered
around and make her yours before she turns into a pumpkin at
midnight.
1. Be sincere in your approach
Though in today’s modern world, women consider themselves to be
equal to men on all footings, but when it comes to emotions, they are
far apart.
There is a wide contrast in a man’s and a woman’s perception when
it comes to love and relationship.
A woman uses her heart where man follows his head. It is very easy
to win over the love and affection of a girl if you set your mind on it.
Be sincere and focused in your approach.
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Give her your undivided attention. When with her, be all ears and
attentive to her and don’t let your mind wander off to your other
worries.
Women like to share their problems. They need to vent out their
feelings and relieve themselves from the burden of carrying all the
emotions and problems in their head.
Give her your uninterrupted attention and listen to her one sided
conversation patiently. Don’t intervene until she has spoken her
heart out and then only lent out your sympathy and your broad
shoulder for her to cry on.
Support her feelings. Never criticize her or make her realize that you
do not agree with her thoughts but is being generous by going along.
Appreciate her choice in all respects. Be a part of her success and
failures. Rejoice in her happiness and grieve in her sadness. Show
your sincerity and dedication in all the ways possible. Bring out and
emphasize all the similarities between both of you. Let her see her
own reflection in you.
Every girl’s foremost wish is to convert her man into her own image.
Let her have the satisfaction that you both are two souls but one
mind. Share her thoughts and present your views on the same wave
length.
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Let her be confident that you are at her disposal whenever needed.
Give her faith and trust in your intentions.
Women, however strong and independent they might be, tends to be
clingy when with their boyfriends. Be there for her. She should have
the assurance of your total support and strength by her side.
Every man has to win his girl friend’s trust. A woman is very
suspicious and possessive by nature.
When in her company never makes the mistake of eyeing another
girl. Do not give her the occasion to ever doubt you, which might
ruin your possibility of being her perspective boy friend.
Your faithfulness and commitment should be imprinted on your face
for your girlfriend to see whenever she looks at you. Give her your
total commitment.
Give her the commitment of your heart, your thoughts and your
feelings. Don’t do anything half hearted if you want to win her love.
Emotional fools, they might be, but at the same time are very
calculative and selective.
They know what is best for them and wait for it patiently before
pouncing on it.
When out in the search of friends, everyone looks for one who is
flamboyant, funny, adventurous, non-conformist and completely
unflappable, but when it comes to choosing a life partner, every girl
wants a boy who is sincere, dedicated, committed, faithful and
trustworthy.
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There is a long list of basic requirements that a girl looks into her
perspective future boyfriend before entering into a relationship. It is
said that “forewarned is for forearmed“.
So, inculcate all the mentioned qualities in yourself before going for
your first date (even if it is just to achieve your target) and woo your
girl friend and make a place for yourself in her heart.
2. Romance Her
Romancing a girl is a sure shot way of winning her love and
affection.
Make her feel special and cherished. Give her the impression that
you worship the ground that she walks