How to Disappear Completely and Never Be Found, Doug Richmond [a court of thorns and roses ebook free txt] 📗

How To Disappear Completely and Never be FoundDoug Richmond

Introduction

Who Disappears - And Why

      Who Disappears

      Why People Disappear

            Marriage, Divorce & Revenge

            Dual Identities & Lovers

            Boredom & Frustration

            Social Security

            On the Lam & In the Slammer

            Amnesia

            Rebellion & Adventure

How - The Mechanics of Disappearing

      The "Unplanned" Disappearance

            Capa

      Planning to Disappear

            Pseudocide

            Do It Alone

            Money

            Identification

            Mail Drops

            Cars

            Leaving the Country

            Mexico

      Who's Looking for You

            Missing Persons Bureaus

            The Feds

            Private Eyes & Skip Tracers

            The Salvation Army

            Insurance Companies

Creating A Bullet-Proof Identity

      Locating An Identity

            Assuming a Living Identity

            A Built-In Second Identity

            Resurrecting the Dead

                  War Buddies

                  Childhood Friend

                  Headstones

                  Newspapers

                  Personnel Records

            The Right Fit

      Documenting Your New Identity

            Birth Certificates

            Social Security Number

            Drivers License

            Passports

            Fake ID

            Forged ID

Coping

      Where To Go

            Transportation

            The First Days

            Finding a Place to Live

      Finding Work

            Choosing an Occupation

            Landing the Job

      How to Get Credit

      Disguise

      Some Things to Avoid

            The Paper Trail

            Publicity

            Miscellaneous

            Detach With Your Past

Postscript

References

INTRODUCTION

"For life is not the thing we thought and not the thing we plan."

--The Harpy, by Robert Service.

To a man of a certain age there's a bit of magic in the very thought of cutting all ties, of getting away from it all, of changing names and jobs and women and living happily ever after in a more salubrious clime! To most it will always remain a tantalizing daydream, but for thousands upon thousands there eventually comes a day when wishes are translated into action.

The stumbling-block that holds most dreamers-of-better-things back from concrete action--in addition to a simple lack of gumption--is their lack of specific knowledge about how to establish, document, and feed a new identity.

The actual mechanics of identity change are not well known. Everyone knows how to get married or get divorced, but how many people know exactly how to establish credit in a strange town where one has only "existed" for a couple of weeks? And yet, disappearing is a relatively common phenomenon.

Perhaps it is because I, too, am a man of a certain age that I became so enchanted by a disappearance story told to me by a perfect stranger who introduced himself as "Capa," a fellow passenger on a bus from Nogales to Mazatlan one spring day a few years back. When I met Capa again a half-year later in Sausalito, California, my interest in those who disappear and change identities was so stirred that I began to research this book.

I had very little success at first. The books I found in libraries were virtually worthless. To my surprise, the people in the Missing Persons section of the local police department knew so little about the subject that they were quizzing me about the techniques involved! I was so engrossed in the subject that I began talking to friends, relatives, even strangers on trains, planes, buses, in hotels and saloons, about disappearing and identity-switching. And that is where I hit paydirt!

The popular image of the disappearee is one of a sad and lonely individual who drifts from town to town full of remorse over the family and lifestyle he abandoned. In fact, the disappearees I met were quietly proud of having accomplished a very difficult gambit alone and unaided. Perhaps this is why they were willing to talk anonymously to a stranger who is obviously in sympathy with their great undertakings.

I soon found that disappearees are much more prevalent than I'd imagined and that they come from all walks of life, from multi-millionaires to laborers, from judges to grocery clerks, from ministers to army noncoms. I found that the father of one of my best friends had pulled a classic disappearance, stepping out casually one evening after supper for a pack of cigarettes, and has not been heard from since. Complete strangers in bars and over the phone recounted in extreme detail and with great pleasure how a friend (almost always a "friend") changed his identity, the stumbling blocks vaulted, the legal obstacles hurdled, the loneliness conquered.

I hit on the idea of handing out printed cards all over the San Francisco Bay area inviting people with first-hand knowledge of identity changing to call me. I received a considerable number of calls. Unfortunately, instead of people with first-hand knowledge of disappearances, I received a huge number of calls from people contemplating pulling the stunt and about an equal number from out-and-out screwballs. But I received more than enough contacts from bonafide disappearees and their immediate families to make it all worthwhile.

The calls from dreamers-about-disappearing were not a total loss. From them I received a considerable amount of background information about the situations and problems that make people seriously consider chucking it all and beginning over again.

Seven years have passed since my chance meeting with Capa. During that time I have talked with hundreds of people about the art of disappearing and switching identities. What follows is a collection of anecdotes from the lives of the disappeared showing what motivated them to leave, how they created their new identities and the way they live the new lives they have built.

While talking with the disappearees I never attempted to disguise that I was researching a book. Still, they were extremely gun-shy about notebooks and tape recorders. Therefore, the conversations recounted herein are essentially reconstructions from memory rather than verbatim quotes. In every instance there are slight changes in the stories to shield those who generously shared their thoughts and experiences.

If one of the disappearees I quote recognizes himself I'd rather like to hear from him...

WHO DISAPPEARS - AND WHY

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