Life Lessons, Natarajan venkat [best self help books to read TXT] 📗

Being human in this world of social era, everyone goes through ups and downs situations, everyone has good and bad episodes and everyone had felt their strong and weak moments in life. The important thing is to enjoy good moments in life and always learn from bad episodes. Life is one big school, on this journey it's always your mistakes, your hard moments are best opportunities for you to learn and create a better version of yourself. Don't dismiss tough times in life, they bring in valuable life lessons and if you look even closer, things that break you gives one, A chance to reevaluate everything around you and within you. Because sometimes we jump from one target to next target which we are after, Doesn't give us much time to think, So tough times are perfectly good times to find yourself, rebuilt yourself and go after truly what you really want in life.



I heard wise words from a random quote, "Live life like an experiment", it makes total sense, after all we all have our own trial and errors, and we all conduct our own experiments in life. As we choose from how we live our lives to what we want in our lives, For sure our paths aren't same, our priorities aren't same and our situations aren't same. But we all want a happy life at the end. Sometimes, we forget it gets caught up with our current situation work hard to fix our current situation over to next upcoming situation. Our goal isn't battling from one situation to another right. It's to find and reach destination which leads us to Fulfillment, Complete satisfaction and Overjoyed happiness and most of all you will finally feel 'what else do I need, I have everything in life and I'm happy in peace'.



Our Problems in life all arise, since we are not able to be present with present moment at all times, Our problems are either we are stuck in the past, facing difficulty of letting go of things, or we are stuck in the future, being anxious and afraid how to face things in a probable future.
Both ways we are not living in present, we are stuck in the past or in the future battling with old lost battles or anticipated battles to come. Let go of past and future by addressing issue causing underneath it. we get stuck in the past, perhaps we may be hurt with something or someone, feeling insecure of something, know your underlying reasons, acknowledge them, learn mistakes you made or someone, Now take this as lesson remember it and move on and let go of past. We get stuck in the future, perhaps we are paranoid of things not happened yet and anxious whether can we handle it or not. You can't be prepared for all events in the future, Sometimes you should remember your lesson and remind yourself how strong you can be and have faith in yourself, trust yourself whatever it may come, i will do my best with all my strength, that's all anyone can do, give their best. So nothing to worry about future when you believe in yourself and give your best. Time to let go of future now, You have addressed them, be free, be connected with present and just live by present let things come and go. good or bad is just temporary enjoy good moments and learn from bad moments but never forget to stay with present.



Being present is essential, because living in reality requires lots of adaptations and acceptance of changes forever happening in our world. To be aware of those changes happening around you and within you. You must be in touch with present.

In Life we are born into different scenario's and situations, where we may have loving family or be an orphan with no family, we may be wealthy by birth or poor by birth, we may have good health or born with disabilities. we have no control over scenario's where we are born into but we always have a choice how to live our life and what we truly want in our life, make them as priorities and if it's worthy enough to give your time,your efforts and your patience for it. I'm sure you will get what you want, reach your destination.
for all to happen remember not to meddle with your past nor be anxious about future. All you have on your hands is the present, so make best of it and before pursuing make sure it's something meaningful and valuable your time which also aligns with your heart and soul true desire as well.


Everyone has their own opinions, some say out loud and some withholds within themselves. Either way it's just their opinion about what little they know and how much they assume and predict, So what always matters is to be truthful and honest to yourself, give genuine feedbacks to oneself and trust, value and remember your own opinion to make yourself better than yesterday. After all who knows you better than yourself. Live life free, Live life adventurous, Live life according to your terms.


Life doesn't work same-way for everyone, we all go through different versions of our own lives.Some face struggles at early age than others, some face success earlier others later or doesn't at all. You can't determine your life vision or life goals based on how people around your world lives by. Your life begins with what was given to you and it's up to you to build it according to you desire it to be. what's very important is what's version of life you born into and what you want to built it to be, should not be based on what world demands you to be or whom you are compared with. Because there is no one in this world like you, you can't be compared with anyone because among in the world may have similar situations like you they are caught up with. But they all want different things from you, all are unique in their own way. Some want peace, some want's money, some want's love, some want's success, some want's family, So whatever life you are born into it may be given to you, but now it's up to you to build rest of your life. As truly what you want in your life to be which not only brings you success or fame or wealthy. Most importantly brings you satisfaction, what makes you content, makes you fulfill and make you say what else I want in life more. That's the place your fortress of heaven lies by, That's the place you should be working on to build from where you were born into. That's the place you truly attain what you genuinely wanted in life.



I have some interesting idea want you all to imagine with me, if and at all after your school and college years are behind you and now you are at stage of where forging your path for your career or already having successful career, I just want you to imagine, if all of your needs that pertain you to have a job to provide your family or your important people or yourself. Is all taken care of, Is totally covered and you don't need an extra dime to contribute towards your important people. Will you still be pursing your startup or successful career? Why I am asking you to imagine this ideology is most of us do what's necessary for us to do in our next phase in life. Not all get the luxury of having careers which they are passionate about and would do it either getting paid or not, just for passion for it, If you are doing something which you don't have passion for it. It isn't bad you still may be good at it, make most of it, get small victories may be promotions even, may be more pay but will it be satisfying and fulfilling as well as you hoped it to be or I'm just doing my job like everyone else in rest of the world.

If you are realizing or oscillating right now thinking about your old time passions, whatever your passions it may be, pursuing it is not certainly waste of time, it's simply worth it After all, what you are going to risk is your time and what you are going to need is your faith on yourself.



Path you choose for your life is always up to you, every step on your way, obstacles you pass, objectives you take upon all of it you always have a choice. Your choices may not be aligned with rest of the world, it may be unique choice, if that's what gives you what you need in life simply go for it. regardless of decision which may lead you being weird or popular, which may leads you being alone or surrounded, which may leads you being rich or poor. All does matters at end is you chose a path what you need truly from life, to make you feel happy, satisfied and fulfilled to be in peace.

Don't try to follow the world, we all may live in same world but we all have different inner worlds which we perceive and exterior small portion of world which we actually live in.

Know your inner and outer world, be aware of them and make conscious decision, which path will serve you the best, Customize your life as it brings you bliss and peace.

You don't always have control over situations that happens in your life but you always have control how you choose to react to it.
so don't cloud your mind or clog up with emotions. just take a breather, a time to let in and let out all info to pass by, Later when you have a open and calm mind try to think on many perspectives as possible, which decision serves you best and everyone else involved in it.

Having one rigid perspective where what you think is right and wrong is dangerous, what's true for you may or may not be true for someone else. It's wise to recognize everyone has different perspectives where they say and do things as they see as fit. Recognizing them and being aware of our own views and all other views helps to keep open mindset and eventually good decisions for all as well.

Selfishness is an act of putting oneself first before anyone else. being so it makes you restricted to small world, where your own wellbeing becomes top priority, we all have some level of selfishness upon us, but it's necessary evil which should be monitored and limited to an extent where it shouldn't stops us from being good human to oneself and others as well.

Astonishing moments in life, is when you realize you are genuinely happy for people in your life on their happiest moments that you rejoice together. and take a trip to memory lane feeling pure emotions and concerns for them. Journey from start till now, changes that took place along the way and blissful moments you been part of and moment now you are experiencing is totally surreal.

When you are hurt, you tend to hurt others around you as well. It's contagious vicious cycle, so be aware when you are hurt and find a healthy way to accept, fix and let go of it.

Pain arising from past is tough, what's more tough is letting go of it , people tend to relive their painfully memories and still see themselves in same way as once they were, everything in this world is fleeting fast and