MY HATCH POCKET JOURNAL, BILLY COY [mobi reader TXT] 📗

“here I’m naturally represented by the words I write to you, though I stand invisible from you.” But for the mobile and landline phones, yes, you hear somebody’s voice and can get a message in a blink of an eye, but ironically, deceiving is easily done here than when somebody has to hand write a letter to somebody miles away or when they are physically face to face.


You know, something that requires the use of energy like writing a letter, rarely does it seem or is a lie, because where humans put much energy, that’s where their belief and focus is; so no matter how weird it might look before other people, to them it’s the truth and they wouldn’t be all that dedicated to get their hands on, with much dedication, to pour out their feelings and thoughts; though thoughts run in our naturally sharp minds all the time, a solitude based thought weighs more tones than a quick pour of one’s mind.

Anyway, as the world evolves both naturally and technologically, we should be ready to see or experience more sophisticated gadgets that without a doubt will make our minds boil. But anyway, the innovators will claim to be bettering our lives; but with so much sophistication and easing human life, I don’t think it will be good for human life. The modern world has become so easily lived by us that our work-designed- bodies have become so reluctant, in that it has caused us to become sicker than man has ever been before.

So, when you see a lot of rare diseases cropping up or even when the known diseases become rampant or random in people, don’t get surprised, the modern world has eroded away nature, in other words, natural living, in which humans where designed by their creator to live in. you should know one thing, our creator gave us this world to run, and so, it’s in our best understanding, to find or create what we see or think best suits us; that’s why we’re responsible for all that happens to us: our decisions, choices and desires, all direct us to where we are headed. If we don’t embrace self control, then we create for ourselves a world that is rebellious and destructing, hence, we end up living a lie, confused, robbed and destroyed.

However much we pretend to be wiser than our creator, who knows everything about our system’s function to the very least detail, we’re just mainly destroying ourselves with stupid pride. God can’t for now,


communicate to us directly like he used to in the olden days of the prophets because we’re too sinful and so blinded by the world, unlike in the olden days, but he still communicates to us through signs and cautious thoughts that always come before our actions, which most of the time we ignore and let our desire lead us to doom’s day or a black day.

God’s communication to us in recent times is subtle but very miraculous and marvelous, whereas our own communication to one another is very direct and fixed, and it’s us as individuals who manipulate messages to one another and tell a lie or the truth.

Communication by a phone spells out more freedom to express one’s self, which is in itself more cruel, because the more freedom one attains, the more likely he or she is going to go wrong, which is different from a hand-written letter; for a hand-written letter one is there, I mean, they are writing down their thoughts and feelings directly, and even though a lie wouldn’t skip to be told or presented either, but still, with a letter a lie is easier to be detected.

If you haven’t realized by now, I would like to enlighten you on this topic, a hand-written letter represents a person’s true self, in their invisibility, whereas communication by use of phones is just a fixed representation of one’s self, in other words, it is just a liberty to communicate fast, and therefore, without much thought and analysis or revision, and so, more mistakes and complications might be revealed. You will follow my lead, that once you’re not in control of something, you can’t really get definite results out of it. Take for instance, working for a company or a government organization, you’re putting all your effort, creativity and time in developing somebody else’s business but not yours, and so, all the profits and credit goes to the owner of the business, and you, you remain just a shadow waiting for a salary at the end of the month. And once you don’t get your salary to make you a


business owner of your own self, then you will go on making profits for another person, and yes, just getting paid for your services, but when will you realize that it’s high time you started enjoying your services by multiplying your salary, hence after a wise investment.

And so, just like when somebody is on the phone, it can breakdown before you finish your communication or be cut off because its bill is not paid, but with a hand-written letter or in-person presence communication, the misfortune of a cut short or broken communication is limited. And this goes to show that natural things are more secure because they are the decisive truth, whereas unnatural things (things created by man) are just workable and essential, but are all just a lie at the end of the day, because they never really complete us. Alright, they can for a time being, but in the long-run, we start to feel the unhappiness and incompleteness because we miss the natural.

When we indulge ourselves so much in modern technology and the cultures that come along with it, we escape from nature, which is really our origin, and in other words, our place of birth and rest, and so we end up losing our true meaning or purpose of living, just because as natural beings, we become superficial in an unnatural world, in other words, so much indulgence into the world gets us lost from true happiness and love; we plainly live a lie; nobody lives forever, so tell me if something that doesn’t have infinity is really the truth? For myself, I don’t think so.

Anyway, as a song fills one’s soul with a feeling of dance and tenderness, it’s just natural to have desires, but our self control puts us to the top of every game; once self control is lost, one flows just like water on sand, and soon disappears off in oblivion or obscurity.

Don’t get me wrong fellows, a phone call is beautiful, and having a mobile or landline phone at your disposal is being secure, given the more uncertainty we’re living in today.


A phone call can save a marriage, a life, a business deal or anything of significance, but all I am asking of you is that we shouldn’t ever forget our roots, even when we’re standing right in the middle of ever much possibility. Yes, everything is possible once you’re really, really into it, but you should never lose your mind over anything because it can and will destroy you; too much of anything is always bad, even honey starts to taste sour when eaten in its excess. So don’t be blinded by what you see, what you don’t see is more dangerous or rewarding than you could ever fathom.

Enjoy your life to the full, eat and drink as much as you can or want, but remember one thing, when God calls you to eternity, make sure you didn’t forget to clean up your act while still alive, because as you might already know, after this life on earth, heaven and hell await us! So, when on earth, let your calling be the reason you prosper, smile, laugh, love, share and enjoy life to the full (in a positive way), and after you’ve pass on, having been called to eternity by God, that you will continue living without burns on your body and thirst that never runs short in your deteriorating system.

Realize a calling, somebody or something calling for your attention, and take care when giving your attention, it might be misguiding or rightfully guiding!


PEOPLE’S OPINION
Cheating in intimate relationships
In this light, cheating is basically creating a situation of deceit, hypocrisy
and selfishness by an individual against another individual.

Generally, from a personal point of view, women cheat because they haven’t yet found the right man (Mr. Right), whereas men cheat because they naturally believe that every woman belongs to them, and so they would expect every woman to say yes to their approach or advance, yet it’s not always the case, hence a man and woman are two different human-beings of opposite body structure and chemical mixture, but meant to belong to one another for reproduction, survival and diverse adventure (discovering the unknown).

Women’s opinion on cheating

• Cissy K. a lawyer says that she thinks men cheat because of lack of care from their spouse, and that a powerful woman of a big ego like herself would also scare off men, and so they (men) tend to seek peaceful encounters with less qualified women compared to them. She goes on to say that she thinks men cheat because they have had a wrong perception for ages: that a man should have more than one spouse to be a man, which she calls an ego-maniac stupid thing.
On the other hand she says that women today cheat basically because of financial strain, unlike women in the ancient world who mainly cheated because they were literally forced into marriage with somebody they didn’t love, and so they cheated on their spouse with their true lover.
• Margret C. a teacher in high school says that men cheat because they are naturally sex pests who can’t keep their bulks intact, and would expose it to every Jenny and Sarah who’re ready to


receive it. She also goes on to say that men would cheat even when given sex on a daily plate because they love conquering more than one woman using their sexual prowess.
About women cheating, Margret says that it’s men who don’t leave women no choice, because they (men) cheat, therefore women too will cheat in revenge to make up for a heart break. She also says that a woman would cheat if she accidently discovers that that other man cares for her more, romantically and sincerely or unconditionally than her rightful partner.
• For Carol, a market vendor, thinks that men have a right to cheat because they are few whereas women are three or five times more than them, and so, given that ratio, it’s hard for men to stick to one woman, since every where they turn, there will be two or three sexy single girls.
On women cheating she says it’s all about confusion; she says
women never fall in love with more than one man, and so without knowing who the love of their life is, they sleep around hoping that