MY HATCH POCKET JOURNAL, BILLY COY [mobi reader TXT] 📗

woman) and be your only, you’re probably his second, fourth or even not anything in his heart presently. So, Dick suggests that women should keep their dignity and legs closed for only their spouse.
• P. P a cab driver says that for him, he cheats on his wife because he’s always having women and girls who come to him asking him for favors like taking them somewhere for free because they have no money and their boyfriends are so broke or don’t


care about them. And so with such vulnerability on the side of the females, he says he can’t help the temptation because after doing these women and girls the favor, they kind of become friends and the favors don’t stop at one but many, once in a while, and the eventual payment to him is always sex. P. P says that it’s all about favors: they lead men as recipients to cheat on their women and women as providers or givers in form of gratitude for the favor being done for them, to cheat on their spouse.
• Long distance worker (from home), Jack Doba says men get lonely too, and so without their spouse by their side, they will find a reason to seek for comfort in another available woman. He also goes on to say that some women are just good at taming men; he continues that it’s not only beauty that gets a man’s pants larger; he says that a women’s fine cooking, good manners, good treatment towards him that’s in most cases better than that of his wife or girlfriend can get a man in bed with another woman.
On women, Jack says that women cheat because of financial benefits or strains, good care, masculinity of another man who is not her spouse and lack of clarity about what they really need or want.
• Bobby Bob a barber is plain, he says that for him, it’s an addiction, he says he can’t resist a woman’s worth; and in this light he calls a woman’s sexual structure something worthy enjoying at every given or seen opportunity. And so he says that some men cheat because they love and treasure a woman’s body, it’s irresistible, given any time, any place or any fine lady. For women he says, men can’t let them be, so women just can’t keep their underpants locked, away from men’s wanting, every where they (women) go. So, to him it’s plain to see, women are flowers that will always look good to every man’s eye, and so


they stand a slim chance of avoiding or resisting an ambush or seduction trap.
• J. Carter a writer say men cheat because they don’t ever really know what they want in a woman of their life; that even when they think they have found her, it all ends up being the same. Men won’t say it, he says, but they deep inside have never really understood what is so special in or about a woman, and so, naturally in their expedition to discover the unknown, they end up sleeping around like senseless dogs.
He says that that’s why men say they don’t understand women, but he says that any one‘s description is only in their eyes and not anywhere else.
On women he says that they cheat because they’re always haunted and hunted by men who only seem to like their bodies, and that’s why women have turned to beautifying their bodies to tap on the opportunities before them; women use their bodies before men’s stupidity, to get their favors executed, needs met and sex life boasted. In nutshell, men’s sexual betrayal of their spouse for centuries has made women become wild too, since they have been disappointed by men for a very long time.
• Slay, a journalist says men cheat because women these days are not worthy a lover’s heart; material gains have blinded them as power has for a long time done to men, and so, he continues, that since women are around when good times, money and material glamour is around and gone when it’s all gone, men have lost trust in women; men today clearly know or have perceived that women are here today and gone tomorrow, and so a life of commitment is hard to think about or hold on to.
For women, as already expressed, he says women cheat because today material gain and money is more attractive to


them than their lives, health or wellbeing or happiness, and so they put material gain and money way before love.


TALENT
Talent: invisible/invincible ability


In my own understanding and view, a talent is an exceptional ability one has naturally or has learnt or attained, to do anything. Yes, anything, as long as it is action, work or gets us to move and act, it is fit to be called a talent. When I fall back to the Christian or Biblical side, you would find that God has been so generous to each and every man and woman, no matter how mean we may act towards him.
It’s not true, ever, that some people are nobodies or that they can never amount to something or anything special or exceptional in their life time. As long as you can still breathe, there’s a lot of talent in you and in the world that you can use to your ability to exalt you and the world around you. Those words you hear “fools” speak or say, that you’re a loser or scrap or scrub, don’t ever take it serious, make them an inspirational tool to get you out there in the world and act, hence to earn respect and to make such “good for nothing bastards” swallow their cheap talk.
It’s amazing how humans can be so dense than animals
sometimes; can you believe that everyday somebody comes out a great success and it’s a surprise or wonder to people, just because that now successful fellow was despised or overlooked, or was not ever given any attention at all before. Anyway, as I have, you will realize too that we’re just humans, and humans never really learn or are we even perfect. So don’t let the imperfection or foolishness of others bury you alive. Get


something you love and really want to do and put in it needed or necessary action, for the world to see and appreciate; make it something positive that won’t attract doom or negativity. But definitely, for everything you do, whether good or bad, you’ll always get or be criticized, mocked or scold, so don’t let the world put you down, just let them see you up, they’ll always admire and respect success they never expected or are not able to attain as boldly as you did.
People are naturally insecure when it comes to looking at those
who exceed mediocrity and stand out of the crowd as extremely talented; and it’s simply because they’re jealous or want what that person has: what makes him or her tick from the rest of the crowd? They strive to know. So, even if people appear to love you so much, with an exceptional talent in light, always put the above in mind (that they’re jealous of you or want what you have); though even many may be sincere, it’s not being negative to always be conscious of serpents in your garden, they can really wreck you for a life time!
But that’s not a call for alarm I should say, it’s human nature for
people to hate, love, have jealous or appreciate; blindly they don’t or ever realize it but they’re so attracted to you that they can’t stop being fanatical to you hence that’s why you see exceptional talent having a legion of fans following them around.
You see, it all goes back to standing out of the crowd, to sort of
be a “god” to your own self and others too. But that should never overwhelm you or get over your head to a point where you lose your sanity and act like the real “God” which at in heaven; God is above all things, and you my friend are below heaven and just human, with an ability to shine among the dull. So never let fame or success blind you into believing that you own the world, you don’t brother! You don’t sister! Next day


you’ll be gone just like any other person, and soon your dead body will be the winds that invisibly blow in the atmosphere, never to be seen again or heard from. Despite of that, it’s not wrong at all to celebrate and enjoy your life through your achievements that come out of your ability of being exceptional: talented.
Everything and anything can be talent as long as you put your mind to it and make it a reality. Nothing in life is real till we humans make it reality. In this light, reality in a sense that it works and its abilities and results are recognized and admired. Everybody can be something exceptional, because that’s how God intended it to be. God never, at all, wanted anybody to suffer or lack in this world, but it’s us humans who have put ourselves in such dire situations. We overlook others and despise ourselves, that’s why a few succeed exceptionally yet many die in mediocrity or poverty.
As long as you still have breath in you, you can be somebody, unless you have lost the ability to use your brain creatively. If you would or could look at the world and all its wonders, beauties, evils and doom, you will come to realize that nothing existed or exists before creative thinking. When you put your mind to real based action, action beyond procrastination, it will think creatively and exceptionally in that you’ll realize that all along you’ve been so talented than you ever thought you were, and that all the negativity that those “good for nothing” people have been saying about you was all false.
If we get to that point in our lives where we listen to whatever people have to say, and then act to our own accord, in a positive way, failure can never really knock us down.
If you’re ever weak to standup firmly and look right into failure’s eyes, you will never recognize that it’s just as afraid of you as you are of it: afraid that you can exceed more than you ever


dreamt you would or that you have a gift in you, different from everyone else’s.
Why should we spend our delicate lives doing what brings us
worry and agony, yet we know that we don’t love or like it at all? There’re a lot of people who know or believe that they have a talent in doing something, but they let the world around them and that stupid fear inside them weaken their ability to think wisely and act exceptionally, hence they still end up going