Non vowel resources of some good mood, Alexander Borodin [e book reading free .TXT] 📗

helps? When someone is fired, he is free, as never before, and can take up his past place of work - write statements (anonymous letters), reveal the illegal “exploits” of his superiors, about which he was silent when it was profitable, and heal his soul if they parted badly, but in no case physically affect anyone? Some believe that everyone who made them disgusting needs to be identified as pests that prevent them from surviving? The boss no longer has power over his subordinate when he is fired or kicked out, and this makes his former subordinate dangerous for him because he knows a lot? Is it dangerous when they start to make "dirty linen in public"? Do some people feed on other people's suffering? No song sweeter than moaning the enemy? In the modern and not only in the modern world, the hunter and the victim can change places? Are you too nervous to be an outsider? What happens if you suddenly fall out of a warm "nest" and encounter, as they say, a harsh touch of life or reality? Psychological problems due to unpreparedness for life? Can game become a hunter, and one who was a hunter can lose in his own game? Contemporaries of the author, living in 2016, organized the Stop Ham movement, is it connected with the education of drivers who do not follow the rules of the road, but can Stop Ham be relevant not only in this area? What is considered a developed instinct of self-preservation - to let someone beat you or to give back, not allowing you to do this? The fight against fears is very simple - just do not forget that we all will die sooner or later, no matter how you protect yourself, and therefore you do not need to cultivate the cult of the fear of death above your desires, otherwise what is the point of living? To be afraid to give back to someone who puts pressure, and because of this fear of getting this pressure every day, you can’t take care of yourself by the method of pacifism in an aggressive environment, in the one you are in for 24 hours with someone who puts pressure on you be sure to physically give back to the offender - is there something called a statement?

“A hunt has been declared for us, and a hunt for us to hunt”, is a song from the animated film “Kitten Phil and ...”, USSR, 1981.

Yes, psychologists can say through tests whether you are a team worker or a loner, but there are questions “deeper”, what will be the answer to them, and is there this qualitative answer and high-quality advice? What advice can a psychologist give to someone who is in constant fear of losing their job - taking an orally sedative medicine? I observed how, instead of sedative medications, some civil servants have, besides working in the civil service, business, and these civil servants are confident in this, they are not afraid of losing their jobs, moreover, the presence of business helped them to move up the job ladder and work less than their colleagues who do not have additional income. Business is money, and many people like money, and personnel from the personnel department and bosses too.

Conclusion: in order not to be afraid of losing your job, not drinking sedative drugs and alcohol in this connection, and not spoiling your heart from constant worries and moving up the job, you need to have a second job or business (some government employees resell cars, apartments, have shops , cafes, restaurants, etc., while sharing money with the human resources department and with their superiors, with other decision-makers). Will the psychologist give such advice, in the sense of having, in addition to the main work, for example, in government agencies, also business to maintain a stable mental state? Probably unlikely to give such advice.

Here it is, psychotherapy, which hardly anyone will say in the offices of psychologists and psychiatrists, we have come to its consideration - to give back, as in a fight (or upbringing, who do not like the phrase "give back"), only to give a psychological change , treats stress, for example, by writing what was previously called a denunciation (no softer synonym for the word denunciation, no, found, anonymous) not found, for illegal moments in the activities of the organization in which he previously worked (tax evasion, for example). And if the offender is a simple citizen or citizens, then they use the incriminating information available on them, they recall their so-called “exploits” related to the violation of the law, if any.

There are people who have “hands to the elbow in the blood” in the psychological sense, of course, but this is lyrics, these people who in the psychological sense of “hands in the blood” eat other people's suffering, making someone disgusted, not thinking about that they themselves may have a "snout in the cannon", but some do not know or underestimate the meaning of what is called incriminating information, and find out the relationship, breaking the law, causing even more harm to themselves, or commit suicide.

As the saying goes, you can always find a way to recoup in a legal way as, by searching, finding and voicing the sins of the offender - this is a cure for psychological trauma, and this one sentence can replace volumes of books on the treatment of post-traumatic syndrome.

Those who committed suicide did not know that you could just sit down at a computer and tell, for example, anonymously about the exploits of the offender, in whose role anyone can be - not only the “unadjusted” life leader from the category of those who are called boors and sadists, a neighbor or someone else, they’re not quite clean, everyone has their own small weaknesses, and there were small joys in life, for some bosses these weaknesses and small joys are expressed in receiving money in not quite legal ways, well, if they are in this regard impeccable If you don’t have enough money, you could talk about their moral character, although, in principle, if he is not a civil servant, then the moral character will be of little interest to anyone (the manifestation of what is called weaknesses is not welcomed in the civil service), in a word, you always find someone - anything is possible, because, as they used to say in the USSR, there would have been a man, and there would be an article from the criminal code, and if someone looked at the Soviet version of the film adaptation of the novel “Count of Monte Cristo” by Alexander Dumas, he probably remembers where Dantes got after denouncing his acquaintances and friends, the rules But, in prison, his enemies isolated him, and this has already been said, this film is a training manual for fans of intrigue, like the books of some political scientists for some oppositionists; as for drug addicts, the works of Carlos Castaneda, as a handbook of sadomasochists - books of Sacher-Masoch.

If I understand Kant's philosophy correctly, Kant (it seems that these thoughts belong to Kant) had in mind when he wrote that the slave gradually becomes the master of his master, because the master becomes dependent on the slave, and this makes him weak, in ours in the case when someone is fired from work, this person becomes independent from his former leader, which makes it possible to throw out his emotions in the form of complaints and denunciations (anonymous letters), rather than committing a crime, and thereby make psychotherapist restore mental health a therapeutic session, this kind of self-psychotherapy, like self-massage, but, again, do not physically affect anyone, otherwise you will lose.

Psychologist's advice for relieving stress: imagine that you are by the river, that there is cold mountain air, and you hear birds singing, etc.

One of the reasons for suicide is the lack of endorphins and the presence of those hormones that cause unpleasant sensations? Need to instantly transform - are there places in which, if you are not ready for them, then you need to quickly re-educate yourself (reprogram) in order to survive? Are there places and situations where the instinct of self-preservation only harms, and are these places those in which the so-called lovers of power over others congregate? Fear in some places provokes aggression against someone who has this fear? Some people in some cases are dangerous creatures, for example, when you show when you are afraid of them, the instinct of attack wakes up in them , as it happens with predatory animals, when someone tries to escape from them? Who wins in the place that is discussed below - the one to whom relatives have given instructions that you need to avoid conflicts with others and take care of yourself, or those who said that do not let yourself be offended, do not be afraid of anyone or anything, anyway sooner or later we will all die, so fight for the quality of our life? In some places where there are a certain number of some people, the dominant aggression described by zoopsychologists is present - everything is like in rats in a cage or like in spiders in a jar: if in some people the animal dominates what is considered to be a quality inherent only to humans - intelligence? During the vacuum of power in the 1990s, I saw books on how to behave in the army, in prison, etc., were these the first attempts at unspoken psychology or was the information that was not working in practice? Augmented reality is used for training by special forces of some armies - should any person have augmented reality with the use of virtual glasses? The main thing is not to be afraid of the formal (chief) and informal leader in places such as the army, prison, work, etc., and communicate with him, and everything will be fine? Victimology (in short, the science of the victims of crime) is the study of the provocation of the instinct of aggression by the victim towards himself by his behavior? Do not be afraid of anyone or show that you are afraid of someone, and also do not insult, do not show intimate places, etc., in a word, do not disturb the animal principle in anyone? Is man a magnet, each attracts someone with his behavior or repels? The one who is not afraid to beat or insult you, not strong in spirit, and he is not fearless, but simply does not know life, has not yet got into trouble, and he did not register a program of careful behavior in his head? I came to the polling officer, made a voice rattling with fear, and it started - he started to attack, first he felt how I would respond to his question, why I was worried, then he started screaming and walking behind me when I was sitting on a chair ( pressure on the psyche hint, they say, I’ll hit you from behind), and if I had a confident voice - he would just interrogate me and let me go, since he would understand that I could write a complaint about him? When someone wants to attack you, he thinks he will remain a hunter or may become a victim - after all, the one who was attacked can also become a hunter, attack the one who was considered weak?

“Who pisses (fears) - he perishes,” - the words of a soldier who was serving his sentence in a disciplinary battalion.

Whoever is a fisherman and catches or caught predatory fish on a spinning fishing rod on a spinner knows that, for example, when a bait swims past a perch, his instinct of attack is triggered when he sees a moving target. Psychologist's advice for relieving stress: imagine that you are by the river, that there is cold mountain air, and you hear birds singing, etc. Perhaps in some cases it helps, and in some it’s funny how funny it would be to tell a person who was physically beaten, so you need to prevent stress, “break off” without going beyond the law (use self-defense in a psychological sense), someone who is trying to “break off” you, and no stress, it’s a pleasure -