Non vowel resources of some good mood, Alexander Borodin [e book reading free .TXT] 📗
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Psychological warfare in everyday life? Need to be able to distinguish fictitious from the present - learn to recognize false mushrooms from edible, so as not to poison? Is false information a psychological poison? Is psychological warfare a weapon of the 21st century? Sturgeon's Law: “90% of anything is bullshit”? The percentage of what nonsense is told to you increases, if you conduct a dialogue with an ambitious person, does he necessarily compose something? You can’t believe anything, everything needs to be checked and double-checked, and only then believe?
One way or another, knowingly or unconsciously, everyone possesses the technique of psychological warfare, uses it - otherwise you won’t win (unless, of course, it is important to win, not lose).
Science has not yet brought the world to such a level of development when robots will do everything, and the need for psychological warfare (for example, between some structures) will disappear, as already mentioned. A person who does not have influential relatives, material security (as they say, does not have money for a hitch), but who has average needs or big needs, manipulative qualities seem to grow over time in order to survive or at least satisfy his needs.
When all people have their hands tied by law, and this does not make it possible to solve their problems through physical action, then the weapon of the XXII century begins to work, this is it - the psychological weapon. As the CIA resident Peter Kalisher (Rostislav Plyatt) said in the film “On the Pomegranate Islands” (USSR, 1981, directed by Tamara Lisitsian), “It’s much more interesting to sweep a person’s soul out than to smash a skull,” he meant, to destroy someone’s Is life better than robbing someone?
Any person can be made mentally disabled if, in the words of Peter Kalesher in the film "On the Pomegranate Islands", to disperse a person’s soul? For help in getting out of a situation, you need not always go to a psychologist, but to someone who is called a strong-willed person, and ask him how he would react to a situation that you don’t know how to solve? What is called self-confidence is transmitted as a relay stick - one gives, the other takes, it is worth someone to win, and you are full of endorphins, you are “flying” and more confident than before defeating someone or what something? Everything needs to be done without breaking the law - punishment under the law can be more painful for the violator of the law than lynching? Problems in certain cases arise from lack of awareness? Do not need to allow anyone to manipulate, hooking you on some abstract overvalued global ideas or give exploit Island be your basic instincts and emotions and not too basic: fear, desire for sex, money, power, shame, aggression, ambition?
Affirmative sentence. Psychologists say: "You will not respond with aggression to aggression - you can program yourself as a victim, you will be constantly at least not sure of yourself, but as a maximum you will become an anxious person." They, psychologists, say that restraining negative emotions in the future can lead to inappropriate behavior. So how not to restrain negative emotions without breaking the law? I have not heard a single answer from a psychologist when they advise not to restrain emotions. You can then try to answer: if you are sober in a public place, you can defend your point of view verbally and with gestures (without obscene content), and no one will do anything to you, if you do it drunk you will always be to blame (it’s your fault), although, you may be right.
Phrases of the hero and heroine from the film "Hanuma" (director Georgy Tovstonogov, USSR, 1978). The hero says: “Either you marry my daughter, or I will choke you with these hands.” The heroine of the film: “Why hands? Not with hands, but with bills. ”
Lyrics: you watch Soviet films, and it seems that some political strategist plagiarized after watching them, creating his own work, as various firms and organizations of countries outside the USSR once engaged in scientific and technological plagiarism, reading and using inventions for free and scientific achievements published in the Soviet journal Science and Life by enthusiasts living in the USSR.
Each average citizen, it is emphasized - the average citizen, who faced a normal life, but did not live a carefree life in a rich country and was protected by a kind of power shield in the form of a high standard of living and "fat" social packages from everyday problems, who lived half his life, can to say, as already mentioned, that at least 90% (if not more) of what he was told and what he was convinced throughout his life turned out to be a lie and nonsense, regardless of who the inf was received from rmatsiya (science fiction writer Theodore Sturgeon rights that 90% of anything - nothing, as well as the rights that sometimes everything goes wrong, as it should be?).
They say that if you are young, then especially, no matter how trite it sounds, you need to be careful with people who are older than you, or with those who have extensive experience in communicating with people based on their specific work, these people are always in charge the so-called “stamps” (there is such an expression “speak in stamps,” that is, words and phrases characteristic of a profession, etc.) or “wiring” in the form of phrases and actions or, if not vulgar, replace the word “wiring” with a less crude synonym - “psychological traps”.
The conductor or controller on the bus, tram or trolleybus will tell someone who travels without a ticket that he has no conscience (this word is a “stamp” of the conductor, the investigators and investigators have their own (“stamps”), etc.), if the psychotype of the one to whom it was said, of those who say that she or he is very impressive and sensitive, and he is a person "stuck", as the psychiatrist wrote, if not make a mistake, Karl Leonhard, and he will, as my friend said , “Pound” the brains the thought that he had “broken off” somewhere, or, as psychology books say, happened If "fixing" on the traumatic situation, then you need to respond to the conductor in order to get out of the transport with the same good mood as you entered it and to continue in the psychological form in order to work qualitatively for yourself and society. One comrade so answered the conductor when he called him to conscience: “Do you have a conscience? If you had a conscience, you would not have gone to such work (would not have gone). ”
"Let the soul take away, otherwise I will get sick," - father’s words on the offensive
words of his son in the film "Sibiriada", 1978, USSR, director Andrei Konchalovsky
Do not look at a potential manipulator on the street, and he will lose interest in you? Will your people be manipulated more than once by what are called weaknesses or needs, for example, sexual ones? Psychological rehabilitation using traditional medicine - a broad spectrum medicine, pacify the arrogant? Preventive, reconstructive, rehabilitative and recombination psychology - more clever phrases to make it work? Unrealized emotions subsequently lead to inappropriate behavior, why is this happening? Because unrealized emotions are a psychological trauma, and after a psychological trauma it is not known whether a person will be normal? To be happy, you must either not have what are called weaknesses, or if you have them, you need to know how to satisfy them, and for this you need to look at those people who are said to be happy and choose their line behavior, since they can be classified as those who know how to get what you want? Is real psychology a war of offensive weapons and defenses?
Do not succumb to “hypnosis” when you walk along the street and the manipulator passing by (the aggressive or non-aggressive comrade demanding money on the street) gazes at you intently, “scanning”, did he “hook” you with his own, as a rule, like he considers, “cool” appearance or not, do not look at the one who wants to “hypnotize” you in the above way, otherwise he can go to the “second” action if he sees that he impressed you, and the second action will be a request for money or another "wiring"?
Can one determine by the behavior of, for example, the same conductor or controller, what kind of person he is, emotional or not, when the passenger provokes him with a phrase? If the passenger received an answer, then, accordingly, this indicates the presence of emotions, if the answer has not been received, it means that the person is not emotional and shows by his appearance that he is at work, he has enough nerves, as they say, for does this hold back emotions, but does it already mean that this work is not for him, if he holds back emotions, and if there is no choice, then you have to work, and in parallel it is better to look for work to your liking?
Attention, this is an affirmative sentence: the following is not a guide to action, it’s just a quote from the author of several models of behavior in various situations that were recorded when they were used by people unfamiliar or unfamiliar to the author and which are not entirely acceptable, since choosing such a line of behavior can to expose oneself to physical risks from emotionally-minded persons, it is best not to succumb to what is called provocations, as special forces fighters do in certain cases, to GDSs on them, for example, in shooting a provocateur, so they said, and the shooting started, and next to a large number of civilians - they are special forces, those who are called professionals. But psychologists advise not to restrain emotions - how to solve this dilemma?
How did my friend who served in the foreign legion react when he was hit on the street with his fist? He also struck, it didn’t get to a fight, the striker calmed down, but there could have been a fight. You have to physically fight, if necessary, such is the price for mental health, otherwise you will be “frightened” and sometimes you will begin to suppress such an emotion as fear, which will later manifest itself in alcohol, because it’s not just that special services in some states pick up children from those families , where parents simply raise their voices - this is what is called, if not mistaken, juvenile justice, because after what is called psychological trauma, it is not known whether the person will be normal? To any phrases aimed at “breaking off” you by manipulating your personal historical “blisters” or facts from your life, which, in the opinion of someone trying to break you off, you should hesitate to remember them, some answered: “Well yes, it happened, and I’m proud of it ... you thought I’m "breaking off", or what? "
Now people need to be softer - look at questions more broadly.
(The phrase from the movie "Operation" Y "and other adventures
Shurika ", USSR).
People turn to traditional medicine, as a rule, when classical medicine has exhausted itself in terms of helping those who turn to it - this does not mean that classical medicine is bad, it’s just that science is not yet developed to solve all problems, including medical.
Advice on how to get out of a conflict situation with minimal damage to the psyche will probably not be given qualitatively by any person whose job it is to give advice or conduct trainings. What to do when what is called an insult happens to someone? Of course, for some it’s best to insult someone, but what kind of psychologist will give such advice? Recall that they can take a license from him for advice that, from the point of view of some instances, is immoral (as some psychologists themselves say), and the function of a psychologist is to carry on building up society with your own advice, but in fact, for some, the situation tense, as a rule, then, when they insulted, and didn’t answer, but the unpleasant aftertaste
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